Welcome to
AuthenticallyWired
Unlock the Brilliance of your Neurodivergent Mind and
Begin Living a Life That’s True to Your Unique Wiring
Find Your People in the Neurodivergent Women Alliance
Have you ever felt like you’re speaking a different language than everyone else around you? For years, I did. I thought something was wrong with me because my brain didn’t seem to follow the same instruction manual as others. Finding a community of women who just get it changed everything.
The Neurodivergent Women Alliance is that space. It’s an online community built for us, by us. Here, you don’t have to explain yourself or mask your true thoughts. It’s a place for deep connection, shared knowledge, and unwavering support. It’s where you can finally exhale and be seen for who you are.
If you’re searching for connection and a place to grow without judgment, you’ve found it.
What We Do
Empower Your Neurodivergent Journey
This isn’t about becoming a different person. It’s about finally having the support to be the person you’ve always been.
For a long time, I tried to cram my life into boxes that were never meant to fit. I used planners designed for someone else’s brain, followed productivity advice that made me feel more scattered, and spent years thinking I was the only one who felt constantly overwhelmed by it all.
Authentically Wired is the space I wished for during those years. It’s not about changing who you are; it’s about giving you the tools, support, and permission to thrive exactly as you are. We’re here to help you work with your beautifully wired brain, not against it
We Help You Find Your Way Through:
1. One-on-One Coaching for Neurodivergent Minds
2. A Community That Just Gets It
3. Resources to Simplify Your Life
This isn’t about becoming a different person. It’s about finally having the support to be the person you’ve always been.
About Misty Pardee
Hello there, I’m Misty Pardee. For most of my life, I existed in survival mode, wearing a mask just to fit in and get by. My journey—as a wife, a mom to three, and a MeMe to a wonderful crew—has been a vibrant, and sometimes tangled, tapestry of every color imaginable. I even earned a Master’s degree, but it came wrapped in a period of intense personal turmoil that left me feeling more lost than accomplished. I was running on empty, hoping for a day when things would finally click.
That day didn’t just arrive; I had to build it, piece by piece. I learned to stop fighting my beautifully chaotic brain and start embracing it. This space is the result of that journey—a place born from the desire to help other women like me find their way out of the fog. Here, you’ll find connection, understanding, and the tools to stop merely surviving and start genuinely thriving, just as you are.
What Awaits You
A place where you can finally take a deep breath. A space where you don’t have to pretend, perform, or push through the exhaustion just to keep up. This is more than just a collection of resources; it’s an invitation to come home to yourself. It’s a journey back to your own rhythm, supported every step of the way.
Community
A circle of women who just get it. This is your place to share the messy, beautiful truth of your day without judgment. Feel the profound relief of being truly seen and understood by others who speak your language, celebrate your wins, and hold space for your struggles.
Tools
A collection of personalized strategies and flexible systems designed for a neurodivergent mind. We’ll ditch the rigid, one-size-fits-all advice and find what genuinely clicks for you. Picture the calm that comes from having a plan that honors your natural flow and helps you tame the chaos.
Rediscovery
Reconnect with the creative, passionate person who might have gotten lost somewhere between the laundry piles and the school runs. We’ll explore ways to nurture your creativity and give yourself permission to rest, play, and pursue what lights you up, guilt-free.
Self-Acceptance
This is where you stop trying to fix yourself and start embracing who you are. Through guided support and shared stories, you will begin to see your unique wiring not as a flaw, but as a source of strength. Feel the freedom that comes from letting go of perfection and finally feeling comfortable in your own skin.
Our Philosophy
Together We Will
There’s a quiet story many of us know by heart. It’s the story of feeling overwhelmed by the endless lists, the constant demands, and the nagging feeling that we should be doing more, being more. For years, I told myself that story, believing I had to navigate the chaos all by myself. I thought strength meant toughing it out alone.
But the real turning point was realizing that we are not meant to do this alone. The most profound and lasting change happens when we link arms with people who just get it. That is the heart of our philosophy here at Authentically Wired. It’s not just about what I can teach you; it’s about what we can build and discover together.
Together We Will:
- Move Beyond Survival Mode: We will leave behind the days of just getting by. Instead, we’ll co-create strategies for your life that feel less like a struggle and more like an authentic expression of who you are. This is about building a life where you can finally exhale and thrive.
- Celebrate the Wins, Big and Small: In our community, there is no such thing as a “silly” victory. We will cheer for the clean countertop, the finished creative project, and the moment you chose rest over guilt. Your progress is our collective joy.
- Find Strength in Shared Experience: You will discover the incredible power that comes from being seen and understood. By sharing our stories, our challenges, and our unique perspectives, we build a space of unwavering support and dismantle the loneliness that so many of us have carried.
- Embrace Our Authentic Selves: We will give ourselves permission to be messy, imperfect, and gloriously human. This is a judgment-free zone where you can unmask, explore your strengths, and finally feel at home in your own skin.
We are a shared commitment to finding a better way—one rooted in connection, compassion, and the powerful belief that together, we can achieve more than we ever could alone. Join us
Why Choose Us
Instead of trying to force you into a box that doesn’t fit, we’ll build a new one together—one with flexible walls, room for creativity, and a giant window for self-compassion.
We understand the nuances of a neurodivergent life—the executive function struggles, the creative bursts, the emotional intensity, and the deep desire for authentic connection. You won’t have to waste energy explaining yourself here
We ditch the rigid, neurotypical advice and focus on personalized, flexible strategies that work with your brain. Think of it as finding your own personal rhythm instead of trying to dance to someone else’s beat.
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Everything offered here comes from a place of genuine experience and deep empathy. I’ve walked this path of self-discovery and built this space to be the guide I wish I’d had.This is more than just a website; it’s a sanctuary.
Articles
My Blog
Embracing Imperfection, Why Am I Afraid of Messing Up?: How to Transform Mistakes into Milestones for Personal Growth.
Have you ever felt the icy grip of fear at the thought of attempting something new, anticipating every way it could go wrong? Becoming immobilized by the endless 'what ifs' is a common trap. To many, the idea of making a mistake feels like an undoable blemish on the...
Achieve Your Zen: How One Can Navigate Financial Wellness for Mental Peace
In the hustle of navigating careers and personal life, we often find ourselves juggling financial goals and mental well-being, sometimes dropping one to catch the other. But here's a thought - what if we didn't have to choose? What if achieving financial wellness...
The Ultimate Guide to Cultivating a Refrigerated Sourdough Starter: Tips, Troubleshooting, and Sustainability Practices
https://youtu.be/Z34QH2uQMiE How Do You Wake Up Sourdough Starter That Has Been in the Fridge? Eager to resurrect your beloved, but long-neglected sourdough starter? You're not alone in the flurry of flour and ferment. If you're a baking enthusiast, sustainability...
Embracing Imperfection, Why Am I So Afraid of Messing Up?: How to Transform Mistakes into Milestones for Personal Growth
https://youtu.be/fUYfNoqVd84 Have you ever felt the icy grip of fear at the thought of attempting something new, anticipating every way it could go wrong? Becoming immobilized by the endless 'what ifs' is a common trap. To many, the idea of making a mistake feels like...
How to Start Budgeting: Simple Steps to Financial Freedom, 3 Simple Things You Can Do Now to Start Your Own Budget, Pt 2
In our previous gathering, we traversed the softly churning seas of early budgeting efforts with three pivotal steps: illuminating the routine of expense tracking, the delicate craftsmanship of drafting a budget, and the nimble maneuvering required to maintain it amid...
How to Start Budgeting: Simple Steps to Financial Freedom, 3 Simple Things You Can Do Now to Start Your Own Budget, Pt 1
In a world where "broke" seems like everyone's middle name and "budgeting" sounds like a financial death sentence, it's easy to see why many shy away from the idea of keeping a monthly ledger of their spending. But hold on, before you hide beneath the covers, this...
Coaching
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Embrace your journey towards unlocking the brilliance of your neurodivergent mind, because everyone deserves to stop serving and start thriving.
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